Overview
Loving someone who is struggling with addiction can feel overwhelming, heartbreaking, and isolating. You may find yourself cycling through emotions of anger, fear, guilt, and helplessness, often within the same day. You want desperately to help, but everything you try seems to either make things worse or have no effect at all. The truth is that while you cannot control another person's substance use or force them into recovery, there are specific, evidence-based strategies that can create the conditions most favorable for your loved one to accept help. At Trust SoCal, our JCAHO-accredited treatment programs not only serve individuals with substance use disorders but also provide support and education for their families. We believe that recovery is a family process and that informed, empowered family members play a crucial role in their loved one's journey toward sobriety. This guide offers practical, compassionate guidance for anyone who is trying to help someone they love break free from addiction. It covers the complex emotional landscape of watching someone struggle, the delicate balance between support and enabling, how to set and maintain healthy boundaries, and when and how to encourage your loved one to seek professional treatment. Every situation is unique, and there is no single approach that works for everyone, but the principles outlined here are grounded in decades of clinical research and the collective experience of thousands of families who have navigated this journey before you. If you are looking for guidance specific to your situation, our admissions team at Trust SoCal is available at (949) 280-8360 to provide personalized support and discuss treatment options.






